Hi Pete, I originally added rEFInd with the deb, did a lot of beta testing and also upgraded Mint, swapped a HD for an SSD and recently did "apt reinstall refind"
The deb put rEFInd in EFI\boot, here's my current directly listing after installing AOS5.1, renaming oldX64.EFI (I think that was the name) back to BOOTX64.EFI and renaming the AOS BOOTX64.EFI to new_bootx64.efi. I also added some stuff like the fonts directory from the rEFInd zip today.
Reading the documentation, it seems that as long as the refind.conf etc is in the same directory as refind.efi or whatever you rename it to such as BOOTX64.EFI, it will find its stuff. There's also an empty tools directory in the root that was also installed.
[U:\EFI\BOOT]dir
The volume label in drive U is EFI_SYSTEM.
The Volume Serial Number is 1CED:064C.
Directory of U:\EFI\BOOT
9-10-23 8:06p <DIR> 0 ---- .
9-10-23 8:06p <DIR> 0 ---- ..
9-30-23 2:39p 60,224 0 ---r LAUNCHER.EFI
10-23-23 8:33p 1,402 0 a--- LAUNCHER.CFG
10-17-23 2:06a <DIR> 0 ---- keys
10-17-23 2:06a <DIR> 0 ---- icons
10-31-23 9:08p 36,110 0 a--- refind.conf
10-17-23 2:06a 35,633 0 a--- refind.conf-sample
10-17-23 2:06a 134 0 a--- BOOT.CSV
10-22-23 7:38p <DIR> 0 a--- vars
9-30-23 2:39p 60,224 0 ---r new_bootx64.efi
10-17-23 2:06a 335,904 0 a--r BOOTX64.EFI
10-31-23 7:36p <DIR> 0 ---- drivers
2-21-21 4:39p <DIR> 0 ---- fonts
14 file(s) 529,631 bytes used
266,104,832 bytes free
Here, it was simple to add/change boot options/order in the BIOS, so rEFInd is now the first choice.
As for changing the boot order list, it was considered at one point to do it, but Arca Noae decided to go as simple as possible, at least for now, with the Wiki to make suggestions on changing things.